Vera Helleman: The Meaning of Life… being in alignment with your inner Self

IMG_20190815_133842Excellence Reporter: Vera, what is the meaning of life?

Vera Helleman: This is a question that people ponder about when the primary necessities of life are fulfilled and an itching feeling says: ‘what now?’… ‘how do I make my life meaningful?’. There is an inner longing in each one of us that wants to be appealed to. But what we first need to understand is that there is no bigger meaning of life than life itself!  

Imagine we all together are one white lighted all-embracing energy which is always in perfect still harmony… That is pretty boring. So we started dreaming of these places and times and things. And they became so vivid that it became a new reality. We call it life. In this reality we can create! We can create all this little pieces of ourself to play out all different kinds of ourself that we would like to experience. Wow. Awesome! We can experience ourselves as physical beings and project ourself onto others. That is meaningful in itself because every part of life is in you to serve a complete human experience in a three dimensional creative room.

Coming back to the primary question. Instead of asking what is the meaning of life we could better phrase it as: ‘what is your meaning of life?’ Because your meaning of life is what it means to you. This inner longing to live your life fully is because everything in life is constantly expanding. Expansion. Growth. Self-expression. That drives us all. Not as a joint goal or a purpose but as an inevitable fact. Which form we choose for that is totally up to us. But please note: We will get the most fulfillment out of our lives when we choose to express ourselves in forms that fit our inner being. Don’t get scared though of not fulfilling your purpose. We cannot do differently than going with our flow or become very unhappy asking ourselves… ‘what is the meaning of life’….

The meaning of life is expressing yourself in this world of form in shapes that are in perfect alignment with your inner Self.


~Vera Helleman is an inspiring and well-established speaker, with great popularity in The Netherlands and Belgium. She has a background in psychotherapy but her fascination for people began a whole lot earlier. From when she was a youg child she perceived the world from a feeling perspective and was fascinated by the questions: ‘Why do people what they do and say what they say because so often it is not in alignment with how they feel?’ 

She developed a skill with which she can trace in very details the discrepancy between believes and intensions of the heart. In her teachings this is where she points her fingers on. 

The reason why she could develop this is because of her autism and fascianation in human structures. With this progressive intellect she was able to see coherence and meaning in emotions there where other were trapped in them.

Vera is author of the bestselling books ‘Effortlessly being yourSelf’, ‘The encyclopedia of emotions’ and soon ‘The power of autism’. She is developer of a new coach method: EmotionsCoaching and created a new vision about autism.

In all of her teachings, Vera’s aim is to give insight and tools, enabling the shift to a more congruent life, and increasing understanding and enjoyment of what one attracts in ones life. 

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Categories: Awakening

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