Christianity

The Courage to Live and Love: Lessons from Pope Francis

“Love is the greatest power for the transformation of reality because it pulls down the walls of selfishness and fills the ditches that keep us apart.”

“The alliance of love between a man and a woman, an alliance for life, cannot be improvised, and is not made in a day.”

“Living together is an art. It’s a patient art, it’s a beautiful art, it’s fascinating.

In a world that runs fast, where many feel alone even in a crowd, Pope Francis urges us to pause and ask: what truly matters in life?

To him, life is a gift—not something to be merely endured, but embraced. “Each of us is a masterpiece of God’s creation,” he often says. For Francis, no one is an accident. Every person is willed, loved, and necessary. It’s a message that can be easy to forget when pain, loss, or injustice overwhelm us. But even in darkness, he reminds us, the light of love never goes out.

Love Is the Heart of the Mission

While many chase meaning through wealth, fame, or success, Pope Francis insists that none of these satisfy the human heart. Love does. “Love is the measure of faith,” he says. For him, love is not just a feeling or poetic word—it’s the root of real joy.

But love, as he sees it, is not easy. It’s not just emotion—it’s action. It’s patience in frustration, forgiveness in the face of hurt, and generosity when it would be easier to turn away. “True love is both loving and letting oneself be loved.” That last part is key. Many of us are comfortable giving, but afraid to receive. Yet Francis teaches that being open to love and mercy is part of how we encounter God.

Mercy: The Beating Heart of the Gospel

Francis places mercy at the center of Christian life. “A little bit of mercy makes the world less cold and more just,” he says. He sees mercy not as weakness, but as strength—a deep willingness to open our hearts to others, especially those who suffer.

He’s often spoken against the culture of exclusion and judgment. “Who am I to judge?” he once asked. That phrase became famous, but for Francis, it’s not a slogan. It’s a challenge to all of us. We’re called not to label others, but to walk with them. We are all sinners. We all need mercy.

When people forgive, welcome, and listen without judgment, they make the love of God visible. In doing so, they find a kind of freedom. Bitterness chains the heart. Mercy unlocks it.

Hope Is Bold

Pope Francis is realistic about suffering. He sees the wars, the poverty, the loneliness. But he insists: “Do not let your hope be stolen.” That’s not wishful thinking. It’s a deep trust that goodness is stronger than evil.

Hope, for Francis, is not naïve. It’s active. It weeps and still believes. It works, builds, and strives for justice, even when results are slow. He sees hope in young people dreaming of a better world, in parents who sacrifice for their families, in refugees holding onto dignity amid loss.

Hope is contagious, he says. Spread it. Speak words that lift. Share what you have. Pray for peace. Smile at a stranger. These are small acts—but in God’s hands, they grow.

Live Simply, Live Fully

Pope Francis often speaks to the exhaustion many feel in a world that never stops moving. We’re overwhelmed with noise, pressure, and distraction. But he invites people to something countercultural: simplicity. “People are not disposable,” he warns, including ourselves.

His advice is to slow down. Look at the sky. Hug your kids. Call your mother. Pray. Laugh. Be present. “Happiness is not an app you can download.” It’s something deeper—in real relationships, meaningful work, and knowing you are loved.

He calls for humility, for listening more and speaking less. The world doesn’t need more noise—it needs more tenderness.

Faith Is a Journey

For those who are unsure about faith or tired of religion, Francis offers empathy, not judgment. He speaks of faith not as perfection, but as a path. “God never tires of forgiving us,” he says. “We are the ones who tire of seeking his mercy.”

He knows that many people feel far from God. But he encourages persistence. Faith isn’t about having all the answers. It’s about being open. Trusting. Showing up. It’s about love in action—not just beliefs in theory.

The Takeaway

Pope Francis’ message is strikingly simple, but deeply challenging. He reminds us that the true measure of our lives is not what we accumulate, but how we love. That mercy is more powerful than judgment. That hope is worth holding on to—even when everything tells us to let go.

In a loud and divided world, his voice is a call back to what matters most. To live with courage. To love with abandon. To forgive, to welcome, to care. And in doing so, to rediscover the beauty and dignity of being human.

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~Pope Francis (1936–2025), born Jorge Mario Bergoglio on December 17, 1936, in Buenos Aires, Argentina, served as the 266th pope of the Roman Catholic Church from March 13, 2013, until his death on April 21, 2025. He was the first pope from the Americas and the Southern Hemisphere. Known for his humility, simplicity, and commitment to social justice, Francis focused his papacy on themes of mercy, environmental stewardship, and outreach to the marginalized.

©Excellence Reporter 2025

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  1. Hi Nicolae, Thanks for these insightful and inspiring messages.  I want to add the two simple sentences which we all ought to share in common; for the good of all everywhere: “Do for all others, both directly and indirectly, what you would want done for you. Don’t do to any others, either directly or indirectly, what you wouldn’t want done to you.” These are “The Two Principal Principles of GoldenRuleism,” and our GoldenRuleism Team is now building a GoldenRuleism Ambassadors network which is already on 6 continents.  We’d love to have you be an Ambassador. It’s really simple to become one.  All that’s needed is for a person, or an organization, to sign on in basic agreement with “The Two PPs.”  We have no fees or other burdensome requirements. To look into this, please check out our website: Home – GoldenRuleism

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    On the website, click on the Ambassadors heading.  Put yourself on the MAP! I’ll also send you the article I wrote and had published in our local newspaper on Easter Sunday of 2022.  May it serve to “re-connect” us, and may lead to another article which updates the ever more universal awareness of the overarching ethic of GoldenRuleism.  The pdf is at the very bottom below.   Let’s keep in touch on this topic, Nicolae, and work together to do what GoldenRuleism is built to do:  “Move the Needle of Humanity Towards Humane-ity” — more quickly and effectively than ever before in human history. Best wishes,

    Craig 

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